A movie about gossip, murder, wit, books, famous people, and forbidden passion. Wowza! Toby Jones was WONDERFUL! (And Daniel Craig plays a mean Marlon Brando.)
Buddhism does not have the answer to your question...you do. Only you do. The answer and the question are one and the same thing. Zen is a process, not an answering machine.
John Daido Loori The Heart of Being: Moral and Ethical Teachings of Zen Buddhism