So I was reading a story and it occurred to me (right in the middle of a sex scene, how awkward) that any time a man(/man-shaped thing)'s balls are referenced with any regard to weight, they are always referred to as heavy. Never light, or average or even "weighty," just heavy.  What the hell are they being compared to?  If there's never light ( Read more... )

As a hypothetical question (a real one, not one of those "I have this friend with this problem" when it's really all about you), what do you do if you're with someone and you find out they have some kink or other that seriously squicks you?  I mean, really hardcore makes you want to vomit ( Read more... )