A friend pointed me towards someone's journal who started discussing the concept of sexism in the Vintage Dance scene local to where he lives. Now, I have no personal exposure to that scene, so I can't really speak on the reality of the situation. But someone else
wrote his own journal entry and veered off a little into the confusing issue of
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Although I'm certain people *do* notice me, my point in my choice of attire was not to *get* that notice. And I shouldn't have to dress in a way that makes me feel uncomfortable or unhappy just because some idiot thinks when I dress nice, it's to specifically get his attention.
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So I find myself irritated right now because he can't tell the difference between honest and respectful appreciation and harassment, regardless of how subtle it is.
I know that people are going to ogle me when I wear the Leia and that's fine, but if you want to give me a respectful compliment, tell me the construction of the costume is good, not how hot I look in it. And when I say "that kind of compliment doesn't make me feel good", don't then tell me that I must be a mental case because I have different likes and dislikes based on very different life experiences.
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So when this poster asked for women to tell him what kind of compliments they prefer, a few did, and he responded with "well, you have psychological issues and I'm going to continue to compliment women's appearances because I like to be complimented on my appearance".
He's completely missing the point that the whole issue started because some women felt there was a legitimate problem, not that some militant feminazi got up on her soapbox to destroy all the men.
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