This post is utterly banal, though necessary

[jazzydramaqueen]

I was walking home from work today, feeling very lonesome, and was struck by the realization that i have very few friends

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[anonymous]

punch everybody in the face

boundaries

[anonymous]

I can see your point about how things are cheapened because you're available and people pop up as opportunistic 'friends'. Is it really an opportunity? Is this something that could work? Are you ready? Is this a fleeting attraction? Could it be a lasting intimate connection? It's uncomfortable if you don't see eye to eye with these kinds of friends, but it does help to establish boundaries as you have so directly stated here.

I've been with one person for a very long time. The last couple of years have been difficult. It seems the connection is lost. I've been devoted to making things work, but I'm not the best communicator and have said hurtful things in the past. The hurtful things I've said have led my one person to stray, twice. My heart is hurt. I'm confused. Did I cause all this to happen?

I like how you've set boundaries and I've been trying to do that

I find that blogging helps, but I hide behind anonymity because I feel vulnerable exposing myself.

Re: boundaries

[jazzydramaqueen]

Dear anonymous