This post is utterly banal, though necessary
I was walking home from work today, feeling very lonesome, and was struck by the realization that i have very few friends.
Listen:
I am SO sick and tired of individuals who deliberately take advantage of my friendship. True, I'm always surprised and flattered. And i'll never understand what you see in me. But. It gets to the point where romantic advances dominate interaction, and overcome any possible feelings of friendship. So, stop putting your romantic inclinations first and foremost, because i don't want them.
and if you're confused, i'll clarify--If i want to date you, i'll let you know. If i want to have sex with you, i'll tell you. Otherwise, assume we are just friends. I just can't handle people who hang our friendship on whether or not we will someday get together. It cheapens everything. I hate that my friendship with people seem to exist mainly because i'm available. After everything that happened this weekend I've come to the conclusion that no friendship is better than opportunistic ones. If you cant keep your dick in your pants stay the hell away from me. This isn't directed to any one person, particularly. With more than several of my friends, i guess things weren't very clear, but i'm 100 percent sure that what i really want is someone to watch movies with, go on walks with, make fun of really silly tv shows with, talk about books with. That's all. My heart is somewhere else entirely--i can't give it to you. It seems awful to ask people to hide their feelings, so i wont, but know that i can't give you anything more. If the fact that i wont be romantically involved with you compromises our friendship then, well, fuck off.
Listen:
I am SO sick and tired of individuals who deliberately take advantage of my friendship. True, I'm always surprised and flattered. And i'll never understand what you see in me. But. It gets to the point where romantic advances dominate interaction, and overcome any possible feelings of friendship. So, stop putting your romantic inclinations first and foremost, because i don't want them.
and if you're confused, i'll clarify--If i want to date you, i'll let you know. If i want to have sex with you, i'll tell you. Otherwise, assume we are just friends. I just can't handle people who hang our friendship on whether or not we will someday get together. It cheapens everything. I hate that my friendship with people seem to exist mainly because i'm available. After everything that happened this weekend I've come to the conclusion that no friendship is better than opportunistic ones. If you cant keep your dick in your pants stay the hell away from me. This isn't directed to any one person, particularly. With more than several of my friends, i guess things weren't very clear, but i'm 100 percent sure that what i really want is someone to watch movies with, go on walks with, make fun of really silly tv shows with, talk about books with. That's all. My heart is somewhere else entirely--i can't give it to you. It seems awful to ask people to hide their feelings, so i wont, but know that i can't give you anything more. If the fact that i wont be romantically involved with you compromises our friendship then, well, fuck off.