Dear anonymous, First off, thanks for the comments, i really appreciate their intelligence and insightfulness. I dont really know much about you, but i get the feeling that we are in a similar sort of situation. I totally understand what you are going through, and my heart goes out to you, becuase i know how difficult things like this can get. I understand very much about making mistakes, especially in regards to relationships. However,thinking that you are the sole cause of problems in a relationship is defeatist and completely unfair to yourself. i think that a relationship working out is the product of BOTH individuals being willing to be understanding, open and honest with each other. But, the point is that, oh my God, at the point where you're at, it hurts like hell. You sound far more mature and intelligent than i, so i am confident that you are handling everything much better than i did. And honestly, things get SO much better. If it werent for my break-up, i never would have realized so many things about myself, things that drastically influence how i interact with others. It forced me to work out a lot of things that i had, mistakeningly, felt that a relationship would solve. and now, whenever i do get into another relationship (whether i am ready or not is another issue entirely) i know i will actually be able to be that awesome girlfriend that i always wanted, that he(or anybody for that matter) deserved, but that i could never fully manage to be. I know it must sound so cliche, but i'm sure things will get better for you, there must have been elements about your relationship that you were unhappy with, and moreover, you deserve somebody who will stand by you, regardless of your mistakes and faults. You seem like a wonderfully honest person, and i'm really glad you found my livejournal. If you feel so inclined, you can email me at eribri02@evergreen.edu and we can keep talking, which i would really enjoy. Take care, and I really hope things start looking up for you. : )
First off, thanks for the comments, i really appreciate their intelligence and insightfulness.
I dont really know much about you, but i get the feeling that we are in a similar sort of situation. I totally understand what you are going through, and my heart goes out to you, becuase i know how difficult things like this can get.
I understand very much about making mistakes, especially in regards to relationships. However,thinking that you are the sole cause of problems in a relationship is defeatist and completely unfair to yourself. i think that a relationship working out is the product of BOTH individuals being willing to be understanding, open and honest with each other.
But, the point is that, oh my God, at the point where you're at, it hurts like hell. You sound far more mature and intelligent than i, so i am confident that you are handling everything much better than i did. And honestly, things get SO much better. If it werent for my break-up, i never would have realized so many things about myself, things that drastically influence how i interact with others. It forced me to work out a lot of things that i had, mistakeningly, felt that a relationship would solve. and now, whenever i do get into another relationship (whether i am ready or not is another issue entirely) i know i will actually be able to be that awesome girlfriend that i always wanted, that he(or anybody for that matter) deserved, but that i could never fully manage to be. I know it must sound so cliche, but i'm sure things will get better for you, there must have been elements about your relationship that you were unhappy with, and moreover, you deserve somebody who will stand by you, regardless of your mistakes and faults. You seem like a wonderfully honest person, and i'm really glad you found my livejournal. If you feel so inclined, you can email me at eribri02@evergreen.edu and we can keep talking, which i would really enjoy. Take care, and I really hope things start looking up for you. : )
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