Jan 04, 2009 19:26
so the wedding planning is starting and i'm completely distraught. i hate how expensive and complecated everything is. this would be so much easier if a. i knew i had a job in 3 months b. sean knew his job wasn't going to be outsorced in 4 months and c. my parents would just tell me exactly what $$ they can donate. We know we want an outdoor fall ceremony in october. I know i want my colors to be brown and pink. We know we want about 100 guests. But we don't know our budget at all. Sean and I can only save up like $3000-$4000. So we won't know what we can afford till my parents say what they will pitch it. It is just so aggrevating because my dad and mom seem so wishy washy. my mom thinks he will be able to put about $5000 toward it but they won't just tell me. my dad is bitching because they have to pay 8000 to fix the boiler or furnace or something in margaret's house.
there is always the option of pushing the wedding back until perhaps april or may of 2010. i just.... i don't want to do that. i've already made my first dress fittig appointment and i'm really excited. but with money and jobs the way they are... it may be the best to do.... i just don't know.