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so just throwin this out there, nothing/nobody provoked it or anything but what the fuck.
seems that all too often, when in some sort of relationship (being that of friend only nature or not) with a female, i seem to be thrown into what some call the 'friend zone.' after meeting me, it seems like after only a few times ill be deemed as a 'nice guy' or a 'good friend' without any consideration on whether i would be a good boyfriend or even a good date.
not to say that i want all of the girls i meet to consider dating me. and im not saying that i dont love having a lot of friends, good friends, that are girls. its great to have female compassion without a major commitment and such, for lack of better phrasing. but would it kill some of my friends to take a step back and look? i mean its hard enough finding a girl thatll hold a decent conversation and listen to mine as well. and when i find a girl like that, its usually someone that already has someone or theyre a friend of friend and we dont see each other enough... or something. i guess when i think about it, i just dont pursue aggressively enough. and when i dont make it known i guess they assume i dont want anything....
well that sucks. especially because im just realizing it now.
well, fuck.
seems that all too often, when in some sort of relationship (being that of friend only nature or not) with a female, i seem to be thrown into what some call the 'friend zone.' after meeting me, it seems like after only a few times ill be deemed as a 'nice guy' or a 'good friend' without any consideration on whether i would be a good boyfriend or even a good date.
not to say that i want all of the girls i meet to consider dating me. and im not saying that i dont love having a lot of friends, good friends, that are girls. its great to have female compassion without a major commitment and such, for lack of better phrasing. but would it kill some of my friends to take a step back and look? i mean its hard enough finding a girl thatll hold a decent conversation and listen to mine as well. and when i find a girl like that, its usually someone that already has someone or theyre a friend of friend and we dont see each other enough... or something. i guess when i think about it, i just dont pursue aggressively enough. and when i dont make it known i guess they assume i dont want anything....
well that sucks. especially because im just realizing it now.
well, fuck.