What is it about being called "girl" by a 23 year old that's undignified ( Read more... )

What story to tell today ( Read more... )

In my profile, I have a few things designed to weed out people I don't want to hear from. At first, my summary was only:
"bi-poly-pagan-gamer-geek. I'm looking for a man who doesn't find me intimidating."The second line is a dog whistle.  Anyone who says anything along the lines about not being intimidatable, or why do men find you intimidating, ( Read more... )

Newish phenomenon: People telling me that they're coming to my town for this that or the other thing, and would I like to get together while they are here.
Like, really?  People do this?  Meet strangers from the Internet who don't even live in your city, province - COUNTRY?

It's finally happened!  I've had my first dick pic.  I got a message on Sunday, "Hiii", and his profile picture was his junk.  It went straight to moderation, and by the next day he had a different picture. 

Today, I want to talk about all of the throw away messages I get.

Half of them are about two sentences long.  The other half are one word (Heeey).  They're mostly from people with medium to low match percentages, some from 0% matches.  They're all overly familiar, as in, they all sound like we've already met, some jump right into the sex.  There ( Read more... )

So, I had been saving this one, but I have to post it now or I will forget to.  This guy was in his 20s, but I can't say exactly, since he has also deleted his account since.

Sent December 1:
( Cut, for adult themes )

This one was interesting.  Honest, and yet, creepy and sad at the same time.

( December 9 )

Sent on November 18, by a "black knight".  Who's profile picture was (presumably) him topless and quite cut.

What are your kinks and fantasies?I actually considered answering this - I was in a mood ( Read more... )

This was sent on November 18:

Good morning. What's. Written at the tattoo.? Is it the picture number?This one was clearly written on a mobile device.  And probably by somone who's first language may not be English.  I think the reason why I enjoy this one is "the picture number", which must be a predictive text insert instead of "the pi number ( Read more... )