I am exhausted by the constant bickering over what should happen to the cathedral. I've never been particularly keen on rebuilding the cathedral just as it was. For starters that feels a bit dishonest - this thing has happened and making things look the way they used to isn't going to make the earthquake unhappen. I'm also quite uncomfortable with ( Read more... )

Growing up, when I pictured my future family it usually had three children in it. It always had a daughter in it. These children seemed almost real to me even when I couldn't picture any man sticking around long enough to father them. So here I am, two children, neither of them daughters and it's starting to dawn on me that maybe I am done. My deal ( Read more... )