Some thoughts
It's hard to believe anybody or anything. People do change. Situations do change.
You can't count on anybody to be there forever for you. Or can you?
Why is it so essential to know that smb cares, really cares about you? Despite of circumstances? Unconditionally?
It might be a sign of emotional inferiority, or unfulfillment. Right, that should be right.
The only thing that can help and will help is work, but in the sense of doing something good for you, for self-actualization.
So when you are doing something - anything, or when you've got to make some decision, it's good to ask yourself, what's going to be good for you. And answer honestly. It can be related to anything and it will surely bring peace and can bring happiness.
The day should start with this very question. What will be good for me today (or in general)?
I want to be.... Will it be good for me in general? What will be good for me to do to achieve it?
And another secret is not to become attached to anyone. It's a sick thing, and it should be avoided or eliminated.
Being unattached means that you're not looking for anything from other people. When you do something good, you aren't waiting for anything in response. When someone stops loving you, you don't think that they owe you love. You are not hurt, and you don't hurt anyone. You don't get disappointed or upset because of other people. You understand that a person is clever enough to build up his or her life as he or she pleases. You accept other people's choices and respect them.
I guess, that's it.
You can't count on anybody to be there forever for you. Or can you?
Why is it so essential to know that smb cares, really cares about you? Despite of circumstances? Unconditionally?
It might be a sign of emotional inferiority, or unfulfillment. Right, that should be right.
The only thing that can help and will help is work, but in the sense of doing something good for you, for self-actualization.
So when you are doing something - anything, or when you've got to make some decision, it's good to ask yourself, what's going to be good for you. And answer honestly. It can be related to anything and it will surely bring peace and can bring happiness.
The day should start with this very question. What will be good for me today (or in general)?
I want to be.... Will it be good for me in general? What will be good for me to do to achieve it?
And another secret is not to become attached to anyone. It's a sick thing, and it should be avoided or eliminated.
Being unattached means that you're not looking for anything from other people. When you do something good, you aren't waiting for anything in response. When someone stops loving you, you don't think that they owe you love. You are not hurt, and you don't hurt anyone. You don't get disappointed or upset because of other people. You understand that a person is clever enough to build up his or her life as he or she pleases. You accept other people's choices and respect them.
I guess, that's it.