I Am Still Here

[heart_songs]

I may lose a few friends over this entry.  I did break up with Christopher, and I was completely done with him.  Something happened that I could never have imagined.  He and I made up.  I never thought in a million years he and I would ever make up, and ever get back on the right page, but he and I did.  We started to communicate in a way that

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[finding_bliss]

Sounds like CHristopher is mercurial the persuit the falling in the all encompassing feeling of passion are what he seeks. And when thats gone he has to find a way to create it again. They don't know what to do when the feeling of a secure relationship comes on. Since there is nothing more to persue they get restless. Been there done that,,,,,,, have I hit the nail on the head?:)

[heart_songs]

I may have to have you dumb that comment down for me, as I am not so sure I understand it. You however might have hit the nail on the head, if I really understood what you said, lol.

[finding_bliss]

Ok let me break it down

He falls in love with you and it's really hot and heavy and passionate, he's romantic, sweeps you off your feet, the sex is good and then as you both begin to settle into a solid committed relationship he finds a ay to push you away so that he can win you back or he starts to look elsewhere for the next romantic encounter and persuit
is that what goes on?

[starshine2night]

First...let me say that if he makes you happy, that is all I care about. You deserve to be happy.

He has some screwed up thoughts over what love should feel like, namely that there is always those butterfly feelings, and I am under the impression that those butterfly feelings naturally disipate.When Joe and I got together, he was under the impression that "love" means feeling that great blaze. Now, he says that blaze always ended with him being burning. He says falling in love in the past was like a burning fire. Falling in love now, is like having a bridge to support him. Butterflys do happen, but not always. Fire does happen, but not always. I tend to find that love which happens fast and furious doesn't last. It burns out like a blaze that had all the wood thrown on. Love that growns slow tends to be like ivy growing up a wall. You don't realize that it's growing, but suddenly you look and it's all over. It tends to last longer and be much prettier for the long run. Joe and I have had long talks about it. I'm VERY glad that you

[heart_songs]

I told him to talk to his counselor about the "butterfly feelings and if they last forever with true love." All I know is I do love him, and I love what is happening between us right now.

[rolypoly_laurie]

Much happiness is all anyone should want for you..and that's what I want for you..may you find the peace and Love thru this relationship that you both need. It takes 2 to keep the butterflies.
((hugs))

[heart_songs]

I can't tell you what your words mean to me right now. Ronny, Christopher's Daddy busted out laughing one night when Chris and I weren't around recently.... "That Karri, sure knows how to fight for her man." Rhonda, Christopher's sister told me this last night.

[coinoperated]

You're not going to lose this friend, but I do worry about you because he sounds like such a precarious person to be involved with.

But I also know that you're a big girl who knows how to take care of herself.