[btvs] no, really!

[glossing]

cathexys is looking for the source for the Joss comment that he wasn't sure whether Xander or Willow would be gay. I *suspect* it was on the old Bronze board or maybe during the post-Tara's death wank, but beyond that - and the extra-textual influence of Seth leaving - I can't help.

su_herald, katemonkey, liz_marcs, or dolores? Help? Answers here in this post or over here would be great, as cathexys's journal is locked.

Thanks!