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Christmas was awesomeeeeee.
The one not so awesome thing? The guy I was dating and I split this past Tuesday.
I know I don't talk much about my dating life on here anymore but it basically turned into a long distance relationship based mostly on texting despite the fact we lived literally five minutes from each other. I was seeing him once a week and despite me asking to see him more and him promising to make an effort to, he really didn't. The last straw finally came for me when I tried to talk to him about some concerns I was having and he only responded with "I'm sorry" before immediately leaving to go with his cousin to Denver. When I asked him to do things with me, he would say he wasn't interested or in the mood then he would turn around and do the exact same thing with a family member of his, mostly his cousin who he'd pretty much be dating except they aren't having sex with each other (his cousin is a guy too).
Anyway I felt like I was pretty much waiting on hold for someone and it was a real negative emotional drainer on me. When I finally broke up with him, I cried maybe once. And life has been sooooo awesome since the split.
The good things highly outweigh the bad though.
- I am LOVING my new job. I love the people, the managers are so much nicer and understanding than the ones at my other job. I FEEL like I do a good job (which I know I do). The schedule thing turned out to not be a big deal at all. I'm pretty much scheduled for Wednesday-Friday and I told them I would likely pick up a day or two. I might have made my boss a little testy though when I told him I couldn't work Sunday or Monday and then I was up at the ski resort yesterday. But hopefully not in too much trouble >.> The only other bad thing is the commute. Everyday I work there it's pretty much an 11 hour day where I leave my house at around 6:40 and don't get home until close to 5:30.
- Christmas Eve started out fantastic in that I finally got my money from Bank of America plus fifty from my mother. This came after some money my dad had sent me that allowed me to finally finish paying off my rent. My financial situation has definitely improved and with the way my two jobs pay schedule is working I will be getting a check every Friday. I can finally breathe again.
I had to work Christmas Eve at the restaurant but we closed early and I got out of there by 7:30. After my roommate got off, we went to my friend's house in the town over and spent the night getting drunk and doing a secret Santa with the other people there.
- We spent the night at my friend's place because he lives significantly closer to the ski resort I work at. The next morning my roommate, another friend, and I headed up to the ski resort where we spent the day snowboarding (I spent most of it falling but my roommate was incredibly patient and so many people loaned me gear and hooked me up with free rentals) and hanging out in the parking lot serving free food to people. I even ran into some of my ex's friends, who I was afraid would be rude but turned out to be incredibly friendly and even yelled at me for not being social enough. At the end of the day I got a little drunk off of White Russian's in the bar while waiting for my roommate to finish his run and had a great time socializing with some old friends and some new ones then we came home where we watched Kung Fu Panda, ate ham, and went to bed at 10:30. It was an awesome day except I am sore as shit today.
- In less significant news a coworker of mine wants to set me up on a date with her brother. I happened to see him on facebook when I looked her up and well...I'm okay with this! I told her I was going to try and work Tuesday so she said she's going to try to get him up to the ski resort that day as well. Good times.
Things to do today!:
- Call my phone company because I think I'm getting shafted. $120 a month for two lines and neither of us have unlimited anything except me who has unlimited minutes.
- Go the store?
- RELAXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
The one not so awesome thing? The guy I was dating and I split this past Tuesday.
I know I don't talk much about my dating life on here anymore but it basically turned into a long distance relationship based mostly on texting despite the fact we lived literally five minutes from each other. I was seeing him once a week and despite me asking to see him more and him promising to make an effort to, he really didn't. The last straw finally came for me when I tried to talk to him about some concerns I was having and he only responded with "I'm sorry" before immediately leaving to go with his cousin to Denver. When I asked him to do things with me, he would say he wasn't interested or in the mood then he would turn around and do the exact same thing with a family member of his, mostly his cousin who he'd pretty much be dating except they aren't having sex with each other (his cousin is a guy too).
Anyway I felt like I was pretty much waiting on hold for someone and it was a real negative emotional drainer on me. When I finally broke up with him, I cried maybe once. And life has been sooooo awesome since the split.
The good things highly outweigh the bad though.
- I am LOVING my new job. I love the people, the managers are so much nicer and understanding than the ones at my other job. I FEEL like I do a good job (which I know I do). The schedule thing turned out to not be a big deal at all. I'm pretty much scheduled for Wednesday-Friday and I told them I would likely pick up a day or two. I might have made my boss a little testy though when I told him I couldn't work Sunday or Monday and then I was up at the ski resort yesterday. But hopefully not in too much trouble >.> The only other bad thing is the commute. Everyday I work there it's pretty much an 11 hour day where I leave my house at around 6:40 and don't get home until close to 5:30.
- Christmas Eve started out fantastic in that I finally got my money from Bank of America plus fifty from my mother. This came after some money my dad had sent me that allowed me to finally finish paying off my rent. My financial situation has definitely improved and with the way my two jobs pay schedule is working I will be getting a check every Friday. I can finally breathe again.
I had to work Christmas Eve at the restaurant but we closed early and I got out of there by 7:30. After my roommate got off, we went to my friend's house in the town over and spent the night getting drunk and doing a secret Santa with the other people there.
- We spent the night at my friend's place because he lives significantly closer to the ski resort I work at. The next morning my roommate, another friend, and I headed up to the ski resort where we spent the day snowboarding (I spent most of it falling but my roommate was incredibly patient and so many people loaned me gear and hooked me up with free rentals) and hanging out in the parking lot serving free food to people. I even ran into some of my ex's friends, who I was afraid would be rude but turned out to be incredibly friendly and even yelled at me for not being social enough. At the end of the day I got a little drunk off of White Russian's in the bar while waiting for my roommate to finish his run and had a great time socializing with some old friends and some new ones then we came home where we watched Kung Fu Panda, ate ham, and went to bed at 10:30. It was an awesome day except I am sore as shit today.
- In less significant news a coworker of mine wants to set me up on a date with her brother. I happened to see him on facebook when I looked her up and well...I'm okay with this! I told her I was going to try and work Tuesday so she said she's going to try to get him up to the ski resort that day as well. Good times.
Things to do today!:
- Call my phone company because I think I'm getting shafted. $120 a month for two lines and neither of us have unlimited anything except me who has unlimited minutes.
- Go the store?
- RELAXXXXXXXXXXXXXX