Michael and I had a conversation about monogamy last night: at least in the beginning I thought it was about monogamy but it became clear that the real issue had something to do with parts of me that I'd been keeping hidden to myself. I got up this morning and it was sitting in my brain like a 200 watt bulb- I've done little but think deeply about ( Read more... )

just got back from an awesome yoga session and workout. I'm downloading some meditations today, as well as finalising the set up of my computer so that I can get into the online courses I've purchased- one is on the Attractor Factor work from The Secret, the other is a mind altering course developed by a professor with a passion for expanding the ( Read more... )

Today Michael and I notified Centerlink that we are officially a couple. This might sound trivial, but for both of us it was an interesting trigger point in our evolution as partners, both being careful with the protection of our core selves, both having issues from recent and long term history about various relationship related things. In the end ( Read more... )

I have been having some fairly intense conversations with Michael lately ( at least intense on my part, given that he's the most laid back person that I know and only gets *really* intense about programming :P ( Read more... )

I got a phone call the other day from Michael's parents, trying to talk me out of my relationship with him. It's always strange to me when people see him in a radically different way to how I experience him, although it doesn't surprise me from these people. They still see him as a 6 year old in most ways and see his evolution over the past four ( Read more... )

I've found a song that seems to have become a theme for some things that are going on in my life. I've got it on almost constant replay through my headphones. Sometimes it happens like that, I'll find a song where the melody just really clicks with me and I'll have it running through my head as a background refrain all day. At least this way, I can ( Read more... )