Ugh...
I was having a bit of a frustrating morning as it was. I like to make breakfast for the boys on the weekend. And Nate had one of his friends over, and also Pat was here. So I wanted to make breakfast for them and of course for Steve and I. Only to find that Nate had left his pan of meat sitting out for days and it was still sitting out, and the other pan was dirty with eggs. Not only that, but Nate had put too much grounds in the coffee pot and the grounds had gotten all through the maker. So I cleaned everything and made breakfast anyway. Then, Steve started working on the room downstairs, and I thought perhaps I should go bring my slippers back to Sears cause usually he works on it for a couple hours or so anyway. So I went to Sears and brought my slippers back, which they hardly gave me shit for, which was absolutely retarded. And I ended up buying a knife set I was pretty excited about cause they're really nice. I got home, and Steve and Pat had started watching a movie I had been wanting to see. I mentioned I had been wanting to see it, and Steve just said "well too bad either come and sit down and watch it or don't cause we're not starting it over." Fine, so I went into the other room cause I didn't want to start it halfway through. I asked him if he would try to call me when they're starting a movie next time, and he flat out refused because it was stupid. Saying that he would have called me if it was an important movie, but it wasn't, so he didn't. So, essentially, I'm asking him to TRY to do me a favor next time so that I at least have the chance to come home and watch something that I've been wanting to see and maybe he didn't know I wanted to see, and he flat out refuses and says it's stupid. So we argued about it some more, he eventually gave in, but I don't understand why he got so worked up about me just asking him if he could call me next time. Did he not want to admit that maybe he should have called me this time? I didn't really care that he didn't, I never asked him to before, and it's happened several times where they started a movie without me when I was gone and it was one that I would have liked to see. Had I known they were going to play it, I would have come home sooner. So what's the big deal for me to ask him to call me? Anyway, I feel so torn up right now from him being so mean about it that I don't know what to do. I want to go home, but that's not going to make anything better. I want to talk to him, but seeing as he was just being really rude about me asking a simple favor, that doesn't bode well. I'm supposed to express myself, and ask for what I want. But sometimes, if I do, then he gets super defensive. I don't understand it. All I wanted to express was that I had wanted to see that movie, and I wish he would call me when I'm gone and they're starting a movie. What's the big deal with that??