Quickie
The babymomma has the baby back here. It's after 10 and Jeff went to bed. Why don't I go? Because she's waiting to jack my computer. Again. I asked her where she was cause I hadn't seen her. "Asleep!" she says. Dear goddess. Asleep at 7pm because you were up all night on my computer.
Why is that a problem?
The computer room is adjacent to the bedroom. I have a kind of apartment back here. Two rooms that connect to the outside and also to the laundry room and through that the kitchen, then the livingroom and rest of the house. There's a door that cuts this area off from the front of the house. It's kind of nice when the baby is yelling or the kids are playing the music too much, whatever.
Sadly, I have ONE computer that's connected to the net. I do have three other computers, but they aren't connected and I have no idea how to get them that way. The dial-up I used to use is gone and it's dsl only for me now. But just the one computer anyhow, really. One is in my son's room and the other is on my floor in the bedroom, basically useless.
What I do have are three cats and a dog. These wee beasties like to do improbable things such as eat, drink water, and use the catbox. All of which are in the office, not in my over-crowded bedroom. The cats and dogs generally like to sleep with or near me.
Someone in the office makes that impossible. This means we have to close the bedroom door, not the office door. So the pets are cut off from the cat/dog food and water and the cat box and will instead wake me up at insane hours of the morning to bark or meow to be let out or in the room they're confined in. I'm also cut off from my music, which I hate to sleep without, and the subtle light from the outside which I also hate to sleep without. (I have night issues thanks to the wonderfulness of my past.)
To sum up: I hate that she's in here.
She has the light on all night. She types loudly. She listens to and sings to music and videos online without a care. She will not let pets in or out of doors. She will not remember to OPEN said doors or close them (whichever) when she is finished and (ha) goes to bed.
Why not move her? Tell her to get out? Ah - but I have. "Don't do that," I said. "I can't sleep when you do that," I said. She whines, waits about :20 or :30 mins and then comes in anyhow, when I'm now so close to asleep that I'm not getting OUT of bed to move her ass out. Or she simply does wait for me to sleep. Then she's just here when I wake up. Confined to my bedroom and having to let a cat out to freedom at 4am. Because the door is closed and she's got speakers in her ears and can't hear the cat.
I am not sure I've mentioned, but the current plan is for her to move in with her own parents who have finally gotten a decent-sized house. A house with three bedrooms. Which, if she wants it for herself and the baby alone, she has to RENT from her parents. Ignore that snort. I do that when I relate that. Parents. Charging the 16yr old MOTHER and 9 mo baby RENT to live with them. It's insanity. She's been here nearly 2 years and I never asked her for a nickel. I don't GET her parents.
The move-out plan was scheduled for July 1. Yes. I am aware. I should mention I also have their dog here. STILL. And they moved most of thier crap last weekend. Yet I have the dog. And the kitten. (Okay, I don't mind the kitten and may not reliquinsh him. Two of the kittens I know for a fact ran off from their new owners...which pisses me off to no end. One of the two was marked for someone responsible who would take care of the kitten and it went instead to Babymomma's girlfriend and drunk mother. Smart. The other was an accident, I know, the kitten zoomed out without being noticed by the owner and I know she's very sad about it. Still...those were 2 great kittens. I may not reliquinsh this one. Babymomma ain't taking care of the baby, much less the baby, the dog and the kitten.)
Okay, well, I'm sure that bitch is over for a minute. Geez.