( Went to a play party last night )

1. I'm not the only one who's laid up. Monkey just called me the other day to tell me he'd hurt himself too. Boo.
2. By the way: Ow. (I'll be all right. But ow.)
3. Which probably means no partying this weekend. Ah well.
4. I've bought an album in digital form for the first time. I feel so... technologically advanced now. :)
5. I really wish the little spoken ( Read more... )

My hands are full of boot polish ( Read more... )

Monkey and I went to the club, which was showing a "kinky film fest." This honestly seemed like more fun than it actually was -- the films weren't bad, but they varied a lot in quality and many of them were too long, badly paced, etc. The ones that were well done were very nice, though I think a couple of them may have been made by pornographers. ( Read more... )

I've been wanting for a while to post about D/s and my experiences with it, particularly what made me change my mind about long-term D/s.

There's a lot out there where people suggest that D/s "in bed" is playful, fun, and fine, but D/s "out of bed" is dangerous, more risky, etc. I used to feel this way myself, but the longer I'm in the relationship ( Read more... )

I've been waiting so long to hear those words that I never thought he'd actually say them.

I knew they were true, knew they would become true, from the very beginning.

But I never thought he'd be willing to say them out loud.

(And no, unless you know me well, they're not what you think they are.)

It's interesting to me (and by "interesting" I mean "annoying") that people always fish for explanations when a young woman, or someone people perceive to be so, dates an older man. The big one is "gold digger," the next down is "looking for Daddy," the next I sometimes hear is "wanting to learn from someone more experienced."

I could shrug at ( Read more... )

( impact play with a clever doodad vaguely resembling a cane and a belt, knives, CBT, and various brands of groping. And name tags! )