when will my man learn
I am way past the point of growing tired of the little "not cute" jokes about affairs with other women, or needing variety, or being a playa or pimp still. Get the FUCK over it please. Deep down I know that he is just bullshitting and perhaps coping with being newly married, but if you cannot see how all the joys of being married out weigh the drama and irresponsibility of being a whore/trick throughout the southern states then something is terribly wrong with his train of thought. Had we not been friends long before his change in personality and character I doubt I would have ever allowed the two of us to get as close as we are. Then I too would have missed out but seriously sometimes when he makes a stupid comment I just want to scream or slap that silly ass smirk off his face. But that would not be the best reaction to have. I cannot lose my cool although I have expressed to him that such talk bothers me and should not come out of his mouth. It makes me feel disrespected and causes my mood and actions to change toward him for the rest of the day.
Why do some men always need to feel as though all women desire their asses? What is the deal for real. He is very insecure in some ways and has been hurt in the past.....perhaps joking in this fashion is how he deals with some of his issues but in the long run with me it just causes more.
From day one I told him that I will never settle for being one of several women. Either I am his Queen and he my King or I am out. Who has time or love to spare on someone who cannot devote their energy, love, and friendship to the partner they choose to marry? What is the purpose if you are not going to be true?
We talk about relationships every now and then and it is so sad to see how few take such a commitment seriously. I mean it is a choice that two adults make together, no one forces the other (well with a few exceptions I guess).
No one is perfect but that excuse cannot be the cause for so many transgressions and acts of betrayal. Stand strong and know yourself. Be true to yourself and honest with all of those around you. Damn!!
Well I have several errands to run......guess I will get back to this in a few days with something new.
Why do some men always need to feel as though all women desire their asses? What is the deal for real. He is very insecure in some ways and has been hurt in the past.....perhaps joking in this fashion is how he deals with some of his issues but in the long run with me it just causes more.
From day one I told him that I will never settle for being one of several women. Either I am his Queen and he my King or I am out. Who has time or love to spare on someone who cannot devote their energy, love, and friendship to the partner they choose to marry? What is the purpose if you are not going to be true?
We talk about relationships every now and then and it is so sad to see how few take such a commitment seriously. I mean it is a choice that two adults make together, no one forces the other (well with a few exceptions I guess).
No one is perfect but that excuse cannot be the cause for so many transgressions and acts of betrayal. Stand strong and know yourself. Be true to yourself and honest with all of those around you. Damn!!
Well I have several errands to run......guess I will get back to this in a few days with something new.