A mental sanctuary, despite having a headache.
I've been really busy. As that may or may not be a good thing, I am at least accomplishing things. I am feeling a whole lot less depressed, and am starting to lose some weight again. I still have quite a ways to go with that, but I have chosen to take it slowly, as I have realized I need to be in the proper mindset to be able to keep myself motivated.
I have been noticing that people down here seem to appreciate kindness more than they did in Oregon. It's good to not feel like I need to be an asshole at all hours of the day and night just to be able to get some personal space.
Because I have also made a commitment to myself to not be so distracted from the main goals I have in my life, I have decided I am going to try my best to not be so tempted by women that I know I will not want in the long term. This is not to say I don't want women in my life, but that I realize that they should not be one of my main focuses. The funny thing that I have noticed about that since I have been shifting my focus is that it seems to attract more ladies than if I actively focus on them. *shrugs* Attraction seems so paradoxical sometimes...
I have been noticing that people down here seem to appreciate kindness more than they did in Oregon. It's good to not feel like I need to be an asshole at all hours of the day and night just to be able to get some personal space.
Because I have also made a commitment to myself to not be so distracted from the main goals I have in my life, I have decided I am going to try my best to not be so tempted by women that I know I will not want in the long term. This is not to say I don't want women in my life, but that I realize that they should not be one of my main focuses. The funny thing that I have noticed about that since I have been shifting my focus is that it seems to attract more ladies than if I actively focus on them. *shrugs* Attraction seems so paradoxical sometimes...