Tonight I supposedly went to a musical munch. The ostensible deal was for kinksters to meet and chat and maybe dance. But I got to the place -- a 45 minute drive -- and found no one from the group was there.

Fucking flaky LA!

I swear, this town is le dernier cri in flakiness. For someone to organize an event and then i) not show up and ii) not ( Read more... )

A couple of weeks ago, the man and I attended our first munch. For the uninitiated, a munch is a social event, usually held at a restaurant or diner, where kinksters get together and talk without any play involved. We met some nice people: S- an educated lady who's into bi politics and pride; P- courteous young man who's just trying to find a kinky ( Read more... )

for the first time. What's up with all the stroking off?

As pervy as I am, I do wanna have a regular conversation when meeting people for the first time.

Fortunately, Salon.com may have the answer to why men take crotch shots. In light of Wienergate, this is a timely work. 

 
Erotica writer outed by angry parents.

Fuck! Could the judgemental busybodies in this po-dunk town be on any more of a witch hunt for Judy Mays, high-school teacher and author for Ellora's Cave? This woman writes under a pen name. She's never mentioned her writing in class. She made a good-faith effort to hide her work from the world, and still ( Read more... )

While dancing at Rage the other night I spent a lot of time watching videos on their big screens. In general, the screens are a nice addition. Not only is it easier to see which songs are on but I can catch videos in their unadulterated forms. 'Caise who really wants to see that stupid trivia on Pop-Up Video or the three-second clips on I Love ( Read more... )

 
Under-use of the real v-word has bothered me for years. So I'm doing what most people nowadays do when there is injustice in the world.

I'm blogging about it.


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A fellow user at the E-clinic, who goes by the name of Dr. L sometimes roleplays the attending to my intern persona. He has a lot of expertise and is interesting to chat with. However, he also has some pretty strong opinions about what people should and should not do online. Reading his post this morning compelled me to say:

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So after an evening at Fetish Nation's medical play party, I find myself with numerous complaints, one of which is an acute case of irritated D syndrome. This condition is no doubt caused by the failure of event organizers and performers to, as a certain country doctor would say, get things right, goddammit.


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So I thought that when I bought this dude from Babeland that it would be a good investment. After all, it was coated in hygienic silicone and thus would be appropriate for stimulating the interiors of both hommes and femmes, or at least one homme and one femme in particular. The little guy languished in the toy chest, for a few months, before I ( Read more... )

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