May 05, 2004 05:52
you know. i'm usually not the type of person to be bothered by this type of thing, but i mean honestly. i hear this so often.. all the fucking time! four times this week alone!
men are so ready to stereotype women and say we're all shady, materialistic, cold-hearted bitches.. but you've got to wonder. are they the ones to blame?
sure you own a nice tricked out car.. but who are you attracting?
sure you're the first one to flash that cash.. but who are you attracting?
sure you're proud to mention your full-time job and steady income.. but WHO are you attracting?
the type of woman you're looking for won't be interested in those things. sure.. every girl likes that kind of attention from time to time, but at the end of the day she'll be interested in you, not your bankroll. those things might help you get your foot in the door but when push comes to shove.. you don't want a woman who is ultimately attracted to your money, do you? lets be honest. if men did, i wouldn't have writing material for this post. so all i can say is maybe it's time to re-align the way you approach a woman. more importantly - learn to distinguish and understand the subtle difference between a woman and a girl.
you're weaving your own misery and paying for it in full.. think about it.