Advice on talking to guys
Hey,
I was just wondering if anyone had some good tips on how to talk to guys in order to get to know them (one guy in particular).
I've always been socially awkward and I find it hard to talk to new people and make friends, especially guys. I mainly find it hard to start a conversation because i've got a lot of anxiety and i'm worried they wont like who I am (looks and personality wise).
Theres this one guy in particular at my work that I want to get to know. I'm new and i've made a goal to try and say hi and introduce myself to all the colleagues. He's the only one I haven't said hi to yet and even though I want to, as soon as he sees me, he turns away. I've never seen his face and at first I thought that he may not be all that social, since he sits alone and doesn't really talk that much to anyone else, but the other day I was heading down a corridor and he was heading down it towards me, and as soon as he saw me he quickly turned around and almost ran the other way. like I was the plague.
Its social situations like this that I get really confused and i'm not sure what to do. It makes me think that theres something he dislikes about me (even though i've never even said hi to him). I'd like to know whats going on but i'm so confused and i'm not sure if I should confront him of not.
I was just wondering if anyone had some good tips on how to talk to guys in order to get to know them (one guy in particular).
I've always been socially awkward and I find it hard to talk to new people and make friends, especially guys. I mainly find it hard to start a conversation because i've got a lot of anxiety and i'm worried they wont like who I am (looks and personality wise).
Theres this one guy in particular at my work that I want to get to know. I'm new and i've made a goal to try and say hi and introduce myself to all the colleagues. He's the only one I haven't said hi to yet and even though I want to, as soon as he sees me, he turns away. I've never seen his face and at first I thought that he may not be all that social, since he sits alone and doesn't really talk that much to anyone else, but the other day I was heading down a corridor and he was heading down it towards me, and as soon as he saw me he quickly turned around and almost ran the other way. like I was the plague.
Its social situations like this that I get really confused and i'm not sure what to do. It makes me think that theres something he dislikes about me (even though i've never even said hi to him). I'd like to know whats going on but i'm so confused and i'm not sure if I should confront him of not.