May 26, 2012 17:09
Some people just know that they were not meant to have children. Some, like me, have always known it. Others come to that realization later in life - sadly, too many realize it after they have already had children.
I'd love to make a t-shirt some day with this printed on it:
1. I do not want children.
2. This does not mean I hate children.
3. This does not mean that YOU should not have children.
4. This does not mean that my parents were horrible parents; in fact, they were wonderful.
5. I am not being selfish - I am being self-aware.
6. I also do not want a horse. Would you insist that I get one?
7. I am not hurting anyone with this decision.
8. You are no better nor worse than I for making a different choice.
9. I am not sad, resentful, or disappointed over my decision. Why are you?
10. I will not regret this decision in the future. Can you say the same?