New here, but have been dealing with this my whole life

May 26, 2012 17:09

Some people just know that they were not meant to have children.  Some, like me, have always known it.  Others come to that realization later in life - sadly, too many realize it after they have already had children.

I'd love to make a t-shirt some day with this printed on it:

1.  I do not want children.
2.  This does not mean I hate children.
3.  This does not mean that YOU should not have children.
4.  This does not mean that my parents were horrible parents; in fact, they were wonderful.
5.  I am not being selfish - I am being self-aware.
6.  I also do not want a horse.  Would you insist that I get one?
7.  I am not hurting anyone with this decision.
8.  You are no better nor worse than I for making a different choice.
9.  I am not sad, resentful, or disappointed over my decision.  Why are you?
10.  I will not regret this decision in the future.  Can you say the same?
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