Reaction to Sho's rumor (recycled rumor perhaps?)

[cherry_akira]

So I'm pretty sure everyone has having/had a wonderful weekend, whether you celebrated Thanksgiving or not. I have had pretty good holiday and top it all off that I woke up this morning with some rumor news that I have been waiting for awhile now! =D. Rumors floating around again about Sakurai Sho and Mori Izumi were out on a date based on an anon

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[arasukishi]

I really was depressed though, having heard that rumor at first. The rumor went, I thought: Sakurai Sho is getting married! ::P And although my brain fully supports the fact that he's openly dating - should the rumor have been true - there's still that dull ache somewhere near the chest region. And well, it's just me, but I don't think that's a bad thing at all. ::P It just means you're attached to the man, and that's only to be expected of a serious fan.

I agree with your opinions about those who threaten to leave the fandom though. I think Sho-wifeys will learn to deal with Mori Izumi - or whoever, actually - in time. We can all coexist, and I suppose we can all work together to make SS happy?

[cherry_akira]

I get that you were depressed, and like I mentioned in the post, I have been in that position where I was depressed about with Sho's other dating rumors...but now I just have a different perspective since that has had been some years already when I reacted to my first Sho rumor. Like I said I was surprised that after first hearing this rumor, I expected me to go into another whirlwind of sorrow...but I didn't...I actually turned out to be happy for him

[arasukishi]

Forgive me if I may have offended you. I don't think I'm capable of explaining myself properly. ::D It's just that I think all fans have their versions of attachment to the members, and I think all those versions of attachment - whether it's the type the leads people to sub videos, or the type that simply makes them smile at the thought of their ichiban - are the very definition of what being a fan is. So... I think I'm trying to say... one's personal definition of attachment is what makes one a serious fan. Some people get depressed, some don't. If one doesn't have an opinion about issues like this, either like or dislike, then one isn't a 'serious' fan. For me. ::P I think, that's how I see it. Hahaha

[cherry_akira]

I see where you are coming from on the definition of the fan, but even if it is dislike, I find some reactions from fans going a little too far and not to mention doing emotional harm on themselves by being really depressed on something that is meant to happen...like it's okay to be sad but the indication of someone being "depressed" is kinda heavy because of the true meaning of the word.

Ah~ that's the reason behind the depression...that you haven't had the chance to know them that long and for them to go away slowly unexpectedly is pretty tough. For me I kinda envy those who have been in the fandom since the beginning in comparison to my four years...so I am somewhat on the same boat as you...but yeah even when the time comes, we still have those amazing memories and moments we share with Arashi in some way...let's not forget the members will think of their fans as well for the rest of their lives and be grateful that we were one of the people to make them shine =D

[arasukishi]

Perhaps you're right. I shouldn't be using the word depression too lightly. It's a bit more than sadness though. I can't find the right word for it... melancholy?

And yeah, I really am grateful to Arashi. My perspectives have changed because of them and their fandom. ::)

[cherry_akira]

possibly melancholy...but as you kinda implied you have a jumble of emotions going on but yeah you'll get through this *pats back*

haha I learn too much from them in variety shows than I can from so many places...they can at least say they have no big regrets in the lifestyle they have lived up to (I hope) because they have done so many things all of us would have crossed out by now in our bucket list =P

[arasukishi]

Yeah, I'll get through this someday ::) Gambarimasu!!!