A Tough Day at the Office

[charliemc]

The reason I had to be at work today was that we were laying off one of our Staff. Originally planned for Monday (which was why I had to be at the office that day, even though Marilyn and I don't go in on Mondays in December normally), it was moved to today

Comments

[mistressmarilyn]

It should never be easy to let someone go. When I watch the movie Up In the Air where Clooney's job is to fly around and fire people, I wonder how the character can find s way to separate himself from the daily damage he does. It's like being a hired killer. My most memorable life moments are these. I read articles on how to do it, how to be brief, how to be clear, how never to say stuff like "this is harder for me than it is for you." I said, "We have really bad news, and it will be hard to hear, Your postion has been eliminated." She asked as of when. And I explained why we couldn't give advance warning. And I said, "As hard as this is for us, it isn't about us. It's about how hard it is for you and about helping you." I told her I'd help her find a new gig, send her leads and of course recommend her.
It turns out those recommendations/references I do are as memorable. I'll never forget talking to one former employee who was looking to hire another. And after she was hired, within a few weeks, the latter was in a position to perform CPR on the former and literally SAVE HER LIFE. Everything happens for a reason, and you have to reflect and go with your gut.

[zoo_girl]

I'm usually very quiet ... shy I suppose ... on LJ. But I had to respond to this special story you shared, Marilyn. How breathtakingly (no pun intended) beautiful. I've always believed that everything happens for a reason, and this is one of the most striking illustrations. Thank you so much for sharing; it brightened my day and fits so perfectly within this season of giving.

[charliemc]

This really meant a lot to Marilyn! I'm so pleased you took the time to comment.

Thanks!

(hugs)