Believe it or not, I'm sorry this is hurting you, but the truth is, none of this is actually my doing. I am just the catalyst here.
He wants me because I taste like freedom.
Everyone makes their choices, and has to own their choices. You cannot browbeat someone into staying with you. (Well, you can, but not into wanting to stay with you.) I've had to learn this the hard way. I'm sorry you are, too.
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