I fucking hate being the nice guy

Oct 09, 2005 17:46

First off, I sent her the get out of my life letter. In it I called her boyfriend an alcoholic, called her impatient and selfish, and was generally pretty harsh. I figured she would never want to talk to me after that. Instead, she talked for 5 hours after she read it, and we are still talking. ::sigh:: I just don’t understand women, but you knew that already.

So I have been reading a lot of facebook profiles recently. Not because I want to, but because I have to. It is really starting to piss me off. Out of the hundreds of profiles I have looked at, none seem like they would be anything like what I had with her. I poked maybe 15 people. On top of that, only one person has poked back. Do I have some sort of IGNORE sign on me or something? What the fuck?!?

Then I read their profiles, and they are all interested in a serious relationship, and a nice guy, and all that. (HELLLOOOOOOOOOO!!! I’M RIGHT FUCKING HERE!!!!) Then they say they like going to clubs, and the beach, ect. Here is a clue; nice guys don’t go to those places. You know why? Because all the jerks go there. All the arrogant pricks that are so full of shit it drips out their mouths with every stupid fucking pick up line. We dealt with them in high school, so we are sick of their shit, and we are smart enough to know how to avoid them, unlike most women it seems. Here is a secret THEY don’t want you to know. Guys don’t go to clubs to meet a nice girl and settle down. They go to clubs to find a girl, take advantage of her, and then do it all then next day, or maybe string her along for a bit all the while seeing 3 other girls they met at the bar. You wanna meet a nice guy? Respond to the fucking pokes and messages. There is a reason why we do it. We poke and message because we can’t stand the bullshit of the clubs. WE are the nice guys that the girls want, but society isn’t set up for us to get ourselves out there. We have no ulterior motives, and we will treat you as special as you want to be treated, because for you to break society’s rules and actually talk to one of us, you ARE special, and worth it all. Yet it never happens. You are willing to go home with a guy just because he is able to grind his hips into you, yet you won’t talk to someone who honestly wants to do everything to make you happy. TAKE A FUCKING CHANCE!

And people wonder why I am so depressed all the time. You would be too if you took a step back and really looked at what is going on.
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