Oct 12, 2005 13:19
I was reading a lot of stuff on this issue on my lunch break today. I have to just spill my heart on this. I've termed myself Pro-Life and if I were to say any different I'm sure I'd get puzzling looks from almost everyone.
But seriously? I'm pro-choice in most senses of the word..just not in the way that most people define it. I'm Anti-abortion, i'm pro-life, i'm also pro-choice. I think every man and woman has the choice to say NO to sex. If you say NO to sex when you don't want to get pregnant, you won't get pregnant! If you won't want a sexually transmitted disease, than you can choose not to have sex to avoid that.
Why should we have to legalize a way for you to kill an "unwanted" baby when you could have made the decision to avoid getting pregnant?
I know that sounds harsh...but we are making a world where we don't have to be responsible for anything we do. We live in a world full of easy outs!
Radar detectors so we can speed with recklessness
condoms so we can lose self control and get pleasure whenever we want with *reduced* risks of pregnancy and STDs
knowing the right people so we can get out of sticky situations
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Everyone says oh well you have to have sex before your married becuase what if the guy your dating is bad in bed, you should know that sort of thing...well let me ask you this one little question: If you wait until your married, how will you know if your husband is good or bad?
People say "get it out of your system cause you'll only be able to sleep with one guy/girl when your married" Let me ask one more question: When will we learn to say yes to self control?
God gave us freedom of Choice people, its a gift. Why don't we choose self-control, there are no consequences whatsoever....why do we choose premarital sex, an act with many different consequences that we try to find ways out of.
I choose self control and to stick to that choice, I depend on God to keep me chaste (which means i have a 100% gaurantee to not become pregnant and not get an STD). I do NOT choose premarital sex and I will not do whatever I want with my body and depend on a little piece of rubber to keep me safe.
I'd rather depend on my God who has proven his Love for ALL OF US, then on a peice of rubber anyday! Who/what do you depend on?