What is wrong?

[carly04]

I have something bothering me that I need to get out for the sake of me and the baby.  I have done really good at not getting upset or stressed but this is something that is boiling.  Better to get it out now while its on the border.  
My dad has me really upset.  My brother Jerrod and his girlfriend are getting married in August.  They announced

Comments

[kittybear8485]

Your father may be so used to the idea that your siblings have come to him for everything, especially when times are rough. And then, there's you, who is strong and is independent. You don't go crying home. Sure, you may lean on your mom's shoulder and cry at times (who doesn't?), but you take care of yourself. He may be intimidated. He may be feeling inadequate because you are not relying on him like the others. But I would think that he would be proud to have a daughter like you. But then again, he may only feel confident with himself when his children do go running home. And there's nothing you can do to change him. The best thing to do is to keep him in your life. Let him know how the baby is. Don't reject him unless he becomes totally nasty (if you get what I mean

[nekrosys]

I'm not sure it's necessarily the marriage thing. When my husband and I informed my parents when I first got pregnant, their reply was, "No, that's not good news. In fact, that's very bad news." If they were not so morally opposed to it, I'm convinced they would've told me to get an abortion. My husband said later, "You're parents are the first ones I've ever heard of to be mad their daughter for getting pregnant after she was married."