What is wrong?

[carly04]

I have something bothering me that I need to get out for the sake of me and the baby.  I have done really good at not getting upset or stressed but this is something that is boiling.  Better to get it out now while its on the border.  
My dad has me really upset.  My brother Jerrod and his girlfriend are getting married in August.  They announced

Comments

[kittybear8485]

Your father may be so used to the idea that your siblings have come to him for everything, especially when times are rough. And then, there's you, who is strong and is independent. You don't go crying home. Sure, you may lean on your mom's shoulder and cry at times (who doesn't?), but you take care of yourself. He may be intimidated. He may be feeling inadequate because you are not relying on him like the others. But I would think that he would be proud to have a daughter like you. But then again, he may only feel confident with himself when his children do go running home. And there's nothing you can do to change him. The best thing to do is to keep him in your life. Let him know how the baby is. Don't reject him unless he becomes totally nasty (if you get what I mean).

I'm glad to hear that your mom is there for you no matter what. Lean on her when you need to. She's there for you.

As for the whole marriage thing - it's completely up to you and Brad as to what your plans are. If you don't want to marry right now, that's fine. Not everyone agrees (personally I don't but who am I to judge?). But you are not a bad person for your choices. Please remember that. Just as long as you and Brad love each other and treat each other with respect, then that's all you need

So, for the sake of yourself and the baby, take a deep breath and calm down. Focus on your little one, and think about the future and what you want to teach your little boy/girl. Think of the wonderful mommy you're going to be. *Hugs*