i had no problem with joe ever talking to you. while i dont think he should have been so quick to forgive you after you ignored him for so long, its his decision. i did however disagree with him discussing things that happened in our relationship with you. that was our business. he should have respected that. for now, im keeping space from you both for a while. your joe and my joe differ greatly. to be honest, you both have a lot to learn about yourselves and eachother. i felt you were interfering in our relationship. whether it be purposefully or otherwise. i think my feelings are just, considering he had started to act distant and whatever feelings he thought he had seemed to go back to you. you still have feelings for him, which also worried me. whatever i heard was what i knew through reading you LJ. someone had me read entries where you were talking about all these great times you were having with my boyfriend at a time i felt that he saw spending time with me as a nuisance. i didnt tell caron and ann marie to talk to you.
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i can't tell you how much it bothers me the way you seem to know exactly what I am feeling. You assume and you jump to conclusions that couldn't be further from the truth. Well here's the truth, to clarify for the record. Fox is my friend. I broke up with Joe like, what, a week and a half ago...not only am I not anywhere even close to the point where I want to be in a relationship right now, but even if I was I would die before I hurt Fox again and fuck up our friendship. I just want to say that first off all, because all those times you talk about how I have feelings for him and I am trying to be with him really bother me. How do you know that, seriously, where are you getting that from? not from me, you say from my journal? Where, where in my journal? I've spent time with Fox twice in the past month...once when he walked and talked to me right after Joe and me broke up because I was upset, and then another time becuase i was up at main campus and we were getting the same trolley home together. Get your facts straight before you jump
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you are guilty of what you accuse me of. you are not a concern of mine any longer (sorry that you have one less thing to be dramatic about). you, as well as joe, are delusional. and once again, you're not that important that you need to feel like you are the root of my problems. be friends with whomever you want. i just feel sorry for you, having to do this. wow...nothing bothers me more than people who are blind to their own faults. give me a break. and i don't appreciate you turning my otherwise drama-free livejournal into your personal pity party. tsk tsk. and for the record, anything that worried me with joe that had to do with you was based soley on the fact that i felt he still had feelings for you. and when you are in a relationship and have feelings for another, things are bound to go awry. they just do. something in your subconcious i guess. so calm yourself down and leave me alone, because arguments at your sorry level are only possible after losing a significant amount of intelligence, which i really am
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What you are is a liar...there is a difference. You’re telling people that I was trying to steal Fox from you and that just is a complete and total lie. It bothers me that you saying this is causing others to have a completely distorted view of me and I think that if someone did that to you, you’d feel the same.
And even if everything you said was just opinions, what are you basing these opinions of yours on, that’s what I want to know. You haven’t spoken to me in months, so what you are saying is based on hearsay and your own paranoia. What did I do that was so horrible that you construed to mean that I am manipulative and evil? I was friends with Fox and I listened to him when you and him were having problems. There is my crime. Never did I say anything about you during these conversations, because I knew and understood that I knew one and only one side I just was trying to be a friend to Fox. It’s almost identical in fact to you and Joe talking about Joe and I’s past relationship, except that you did call me things based on those
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and i don't do paragraphs online. too lazy. plus, i'm not getting graded or anything. i don't need proper structure to justify my points. they're fine enough for me without all the hassle of pressing the enter key. *basks in sloth*
this is kim... not trying to piss anyone off here... but you guys are just repeating yourselves. You guys should talk to each other in person instead of listening to what everyone else tells you. you both say you hate the whole he said she said shit, but here you both go falling victim to it. I hate gossip as much as everyone else... and if i listened to any of it i wouldnt have any friends now. Im not saying you two should be friends, but this petty fighting is getting ridiculous. Calling each other retarded, bitching about not using paragraphs... come on people! your not two years old anymore! I dont want to start a fight with either of you, but i want to make it clear that neither of you really know each other and it would be better for everyone if you would just talk to each other. PLEASE!!! Have a nice day. *big smiles* boyle
sorry that my feelings toward another individual make you upset. but when i have a problem with something, i don't try for reconciliation. i don't really do that. call me horrible, but i don't see what it's worth. and i am sorely offended to hear that people believe that my opinions are the product of hearsay. due to the fact that i don't trust most people, i make my judgements based on my own digging and discovering and realizations. disagree with me on this, fine...most do. i mean, i really do care about my friends, and it upsets me to hear that they're dealing with people's crap, but it's not worth it for me to involve myself. i'll listen, i'll try some advice, but really, people are responsible for themselves. and i claim full responsibility for my bad feelings toward jess. when you don't like someone, you don't like 'em. end of story. and i happen to have a problem with her. explaining why would take longer than i have free time, because things are more complicated than can be relayed in a journal. plus, it would
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i am sorely offended to hear that people believe that my opinions are the product of hearsay. due to the fact that i don't trust most people, i make my judgements based on my own digging and discovering and realizations.
I love this. Seriously. Bravo. Great copout. Not one example than Ashley? You couldn't come up with one point you could just to back this up. You can't name one example. You know it's bullshit. And yea, I know it's not all hearsay...it's also comfortable lies that you tell yourself rather than face the real reason that Fox broke up with you.
You want to hate me, fine, hate for no fucking reason, that's fine. But keep my name out of your mouth. I'm sure you have more important things to talk about than me. You're in honors classes for christs sake...you can talk about, I don't know, the night's homework at your lunch table! Have fun, knock yourself out. but if you want this to end like you say you do you won't say anything else about me or spread anymore lies or "opinions" that you can't even justify.
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And even if everything you said was just opinions, what are you basing these opinions of yours on, that’s what I want to know. You haven’t spoken to me in months, so what you are saying is based on hearsay and your own paranoia. What did I do that was so horrible that you construed to mean that I am manipulative and evil? I was friends with Fox and I listened to him when you and him were having problems. There is my crime. Never did I say anything about you during these conversations, because I knew and understood that I knew one and only one side I just was trying to be a friend to Fox. It’s almost identical in fact to you and Joe talking about Joe and I’s past relationship, except that you did call me things based on those ( ... )
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I love this. Seriously. Bravo. Great copout. Not one example than Ashley? You couldn't come up with one point you could just to back this up. You can't name one example. You know it's bullshit. And yea, I know it's not all hearsay...it's also comfortable lies that you tell yourself rather than face the real reason that Fox broke up with you.
You want to hate me, fine, hate for no fucking reason, that's fine. But keep my name out of your mouth. I'm sure you have more important things to talk about than me. You're in honors classes for christs sake...you can talk about, I don't know, the night's homework at your lunch table! Have fun, knock yourself out. but if you want this to end like you say you do you won't say anything else about me or spread anymore lies or "opinions" that you can't even justify.
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