Last night I (finally) got divorce papers in the mail. Which made me happy. For about 30 seconds. Then I opened them.

Apparently I have to wait another year to be divorced.

I have to wait an entire extra year. That, of course, is on top of the past year I've already spent dealing with this ( Read more... )

I woke up this morning gripped in the kind of panic that I have rarely been subject to recently, not for the last couple of months, at least. It was, as virtually all my anxiety attacks seem to be, entirely marital in nature ( Read more... )

So I had a long contemplative polyamorous navel-gazing already written for the day and was about to post. But my bestest friend in the whole world just got handed some pretty incredibly fucking awful news and I am completely in shock. I won't get into it, it's her business and not the internet's, but JESUS CHRIST, WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE!??! ( Read more... )