too soon...

[bluesgal]

So, there is another. As usual, I begin to overthink. It's too soon, I know... I should be single for longer... a week is not enough time. And realistically, I know that I will just attach all those feelings I had onto him; I don't want to be in a "rebound relationship", that's not how I operate. But it's hard not to fall hard when you're so

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[februaryfour]

I know not all rebounds are good, and not all rebounds are bad. But I met Doug within one week of getting out of Bad Relationship, and Doug and I are married now.

[bluesgal]

You ever see the movie He's Just Not That Into You? You know how they start out saying that girls tell each other about the exception to the rule? I think you might be that exception. I know you're right, they're not all bad, they're not all good... but perhaps it's best to err on the side of caution.

But thanks. :) It gives me a little hope.

[februaryfour]

Well, just make sure he knows? I mean, with Doug, I told him outright I'd just gotten out of a relationship, and he actually said, "If you tell me, and I ask you for this with my eyes wide open, what's the problem?" So I dunno... I know I tend to overshare, but that's always served me well. ^_^;

[bluesgal]

I overshare too, funnily enough. And he hasn't asked me for anything just yet... I asked him what he wanted from me and he told me he wasn't sure but that he knew he liked me and liked being with me... he just wanted me not to over-analyze and see where it goes.

And he does know... he's actually been my friend for about a year now so he knew the moment it ended with my ex. The complicated situation is that he is also just out of a relationship (granted, his hasn't been for as long as mine and he's had an extra week than me to get over it, but still)... but I think I am just going to see what happens.