I find myself in the unenviable position of being so cheesed off at some members of our dear, dear community that it's making me want to write ( Read more... )

Guy Baldwin Keynote speech at NLA Houston

Honestly, I'm not entirely sure how I feel about this. There are parts that I heavily agree with...and there are parts, particularly towards the end, that I strongly disagree with. I think I'll be contemplating this for quite some time to come.

...I wrote this post right here and then bookmarked it because I couldn't do more processing on it at that time and I knew I wouldn't be able to read any replies and not have a complete breakdown ( Read more... )

So...over in this feminist kink group, we have ( Read more... )

Today is Reflection Day. I've been involved in the kink scene for...a long time. Not as long as some others, true. But, for long enough to have figured at least a few things out. One item, though, has continually bothered me. From day one, my "goal" was to be a slave. Not just "a" slave, though. The Good slave. I hesitate to use the word perfect ( Read more... )

What the Lady Wants ( Read more... )

I've been reading several forums around the site and have come to the conclusion that my brain is just wired differently than a lot of kinked folk. I repeatedly see, from catchers "I just love it when he punishes me! He's so creative and we have a great time ( Read more... )

Nimoy's The Full Body Project

[random Dominant posting an excerpt from his sub, responds to something posted by another person]

-- I am refering to the traditional standard names of pet, toy, slut, etc. They do not do a strong willed/personality type sub justice, and as Doms we should respect that and take the time to come up with names that fit them and how we see them.Why ( Read more... )

I'd like to thank a lot of you for being patient with my websites being down ( Read more... )