I've nowhere else I can safely say this ( Read more... )

I hope you'll forgive me that this is going to be largely links, until I can explain this further. Those of you who've read a lot of my LJ will be well familiar with the elements and able to draw the connections easily ( Read more... )

( Back to work legislation for me.... )

From my main contact in the Toronto Police Services LGBT Community Consultative Committee, referring to our most recent organization meeting:

The Inspector was really impressed with your enthusiasm and professionalism at the LGBT CCC ( Read more... )

For the first time in my life that I can remember, I feel that my life is filled with loving friends and family.

( Why I feel so well loved )

The thing is, there's this big thing in my way when I think of doing anything productive.

The thing is HUGE and yet, it's really hard to see because I'm blocking my own view of it.

I am in my own way.

Every time I think of moving forward, I get frightened of the zillions of ways in which I can screw it up. I know, I know. It's not rational. Believe me ( Read more... )

It's been a helluva year in 2008, lemme tell ya ( Read more... )

One of the side effects of being as honest as our relationship is, is that we each can discuss something that's bothering us and work on dealing with it. It is a testament to our willingness to really examine our behaviours and see them for what they are, declare them openly and freely, and deal with each of the real, hard moments as they come up. ( Read more... )

So, following up on this post I wanted to follow up on having said, ( I've recently been thinking about what's changing, and what it means to me and for me. )

First, to those who have historically read my LJ, I've not been posting. It surprises me how easily I've gotten out of the habit. It's not that there aren't things to talk about, but I appear to be going through a change of sorts in my outlook on things ( Read more... )