what to do after your partner tells you that you violated their sexual consent

[belenen]

icon: "progressing (a deeply, vividly green forest of thick vines and trees, with a tunnel running through where unused train tracks lay)"Note: I am of course assuming that it was not an intentional violatiom because why would you read this if so. I'm also writing this in the context of a relationship but it mostly applies to casual encounters as

Comments

[toll_booth]

Good list. Might a similar one be needed if one is confronted about a racist, sexist, etc. comment or action?

[belenen]

maybe? but this list presumes intimacy between the people, so it definitely wouldn't apply to casual acquaintances whom one hurt with oppressive ideas or behavior.

[thesewaters]

This is a GREAT post.

[belenen]

thanks!!

[sandracaprice]

This is wonderful! Is it something I can share?

[belenen]

thanks! and yes, of course! all public posts of mine are ok to share.