I haven't written here in a very long time. About three days after my last post, My Sweetie (emeritus) decided that he wanted to separate, and we are moving towards divorce. I've moved back in with my parents for the moment, and while I'm still working at the grocery store, I've transferred to a different location, and Trekkie and I are dating for ( Read more... )

I've now been waiting almost two months for a psychiatric referral. Our couples therapist pretty much fired us, because we have too many individual issues that need to be addressed before she can work with us as a couple, and I can't seem to bring myself to care enough to contact my individual therapist ( Read more... )

So, we've been working through a complete budget overhaul, trying to figure out why the account was still being overdrawn, and forming a plan to pay down our (considerable) consumer debt. We finally figured out why the budget wasn't working, and I can't believe it took us so long. Long story short, My Sweetie's truck payments were logged in the ( Read more... )