I’ve been doing a lot of thinking and praying lately. I feel like I’m at a milestone in my life, where either a change of direction or a renewal of some kind is necessary. I feel myself being called very strongly to become an Adult and a Man; and it’s scary because I don’t really know what that means — but I’m learning. My tendency is to want to ( Read more... )

Caveat lector: this one’s going to be a rambler.

So, I’ve been thinking a lot about the nature of Love lately.[1] For one thing, I’ve been tossing around the Ladder Metaphor, which a friend brought up recently in an e-mail. The basic idea is that Women have two ladders, one for Friendship, one for Love, and you’re only ever on one of those; whereas ( Read more... )