hummm...

[aphrodite7890]

i'm kinda feeling like... i maybe... need a change. well, not really a change, cause i don't want to break up with dave... see, i've been with him awile though. And i know some of you are laughing because you've been with your boyfriend forever... and are planning to stay with your boyfriend forever. but, i'm not seeing that for me. its not

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[angelkisses21]

Hey darling. Um, I'll have to agree with Patrick for the most part on this one. I think you need to think about your relationship with Dave. You love him, but you're gonna break up with him? And you know what you want in a guy and it just seems like he's not the guy you want. You said yourself he doesn't know the real you and that does seem kind of scary. Love or not, knowing someone should be the minimum requirement for sex at the very least. but since you do love him, sex and love are going hand in hand and is that something you want to tangle yourself up with if you're planning to break up anyway? Do you really feel its wise to give yourself up to a guy you're aware you might not have around later?

And one more thing to consider. Do you really want your first time with dave to be planned, carefully mapped out and stressed over? It doesn't seem like the most romantic thing if you're thinking "hey in 72 hours and 36 minutes from now, I'll be on top of him" (a little graphic I know but thats what Im thinking)

I'm not trying to judge you or tell you which way to go. I'm just trying to give you some more things to think about. I just want you to be happy because I love you and I dont want anything bad happening. That, and I don't want to have to kill dave in case anything goes wrong. Make the best decision you can and then just go with it and learn from it. Oh and one thing that helps me make a decision...Think about making your decision and then looking back at it 10 years from now. Are you happy with it? Has it changed you or your present experiences? Would you have changed your decision and how? Sometimes it clears the mind a little and offers some perspective. Good luck, babe... and be safe.

~Snicks

Ps- I don't think you'll have trouble finding a boyfriend if you break up with dave, even if it doesn't happen to be weed boy or Jaime. You're attractive, talented and you're going places. Keep your head up and never settle for less. You don't deserve everything that's best and safe.