hummm...

[aphrodite7890]

i'm kinda feeling like... i maybe... need a change. well, not really a change, cause i don't want to break up with dave... see, i've been with him awile though. And i know some of you are laughing because you've been with your boyfriend forever... and are planning to stay with your boyfriend forever. but, i'm not seeing that for me. its not

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Re: Whoda whata?

[aphrodite7890]

if we talked more, you might understand a little better. or not, cause it still probably sounds crazy. in short... dave and i have been having a few problems lately with communication... i have issues with love vs. sex and whether or not you need one with the other... and well, who knows. i think your right about the sex thing and that makes me want to throw up... cause i don't want to hear that even though its the right thing to say... and i know nothing is going to change with me and dave... which is really what kills me. nothing is going to change. so i can live with that, or break up with him. and no, talking to him doesn't work. ehhhh... thanks for your input though

[angelkisses21]

Hey darling. Um, I'll have to agree with Patrick for the most part on this one. I think you need to think about your relationship with Dave. You love him, but you're gonna break up with him? And you know what you want in a guy and it just seems like he's not the guy you want. You said yourself he doesn't know the real you and that does seem kind of scary. Love or not, knowing someone should be the minimum requirement for sex at the very least. but since you do love him, sex and love are going hand in hand and is that something you want to tangle yourself up with if you're planning to break up anyway? Do you really feel its wise to give yourself up to a guy you're aware you might not have around later