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__inadream: aw my baby calla. i feel like i should snuggle you to my bosom.
callalily_love: or give me half of it so i can have some boobs
*giggles madly* ♥
also, i do not know how to feel about this. brian and i were talking tonight about sex and how i'm his first g/f in three years and i asked if he picked up girls in bars and whatever. he said no, but then said that he made out okay. i asked how, and he said that for a while (a year-ish), him and another person have gotten together regularly (about once a week) to have sex and that he broke it off a week before he asked me out. he said that it wasn't stopped for me (i asked), but that he just felt like it wasn't something he should be doing anymore; that he wanted a real relationship.
i don't know how i feel about this yet. i have not processed. danyel perfect_cap says it's in a guy's nature basically to have sex, and it's more important to have it regularly to them than to a girl. i think maybe that is partially true.
any other opinions?
callalily_love: or give me half of it so i can have some boobs
*giggles madly* ♥
also, i do not know how to feel about this. brian and i were talking tonight about sex and how i'm his first g/f in three years and i asked if he picked up girls in bars and whatever. he said no, but then said that he made out okay. i asked how, and he said that for a while (a year-ish), him and another person have gotten together regularly (about once a week) to have sex and that he broke it off a week before he asked me out. he said that it wasn't stopped for me (i asked), but that he just felt like it wasn't something he should be doing anymore; that he wanted a real relationship.
i don't know how i feel about this yet. i have not processed. danyel perfect_cap says it's in a guy's nature basically to have sex, and it's more important to have it regularly to them than to a girl. i think maybe that is partially true.
any other opinions?