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[zoombinilover]

Had coffee with Jake today. (He had hot chocolate. I had tea. Same old, same old

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[ms_octopus_lady]

A lot of people don't get closure when they end relationships, so I'm glad you got it with Jake.

And about the scuba diving, isn't the ocean only, like, an hour and a half away?

I'm a little uncomfortable about you meeting my "non-existent" boyfriend because he wants to be a Jewish lawyer, and if you're destined to marry one then...I'm just not comfortable with you meeting him.

And speaking of meeting my non-existent Jewish wannabe lawyer of a boyfriend, he's coming to visit around the 19th. Are you going to be in San Francisco?

[zoombinilover]

The ocean is pretty close, but she's been doing it on campus. We have a scuba program, I believe. Maybe she practices in a swimming pool?

I met my friend Emily's non-existent boyfriend last night. It was very silly. She told me she had a surprise for me at her house and when I got there, the non-existent boyfriend became existent. Crazy! I thought I'd never meet him. They've been together since high school and I've been teasing her about him constantly since she and I were in London together.

Anyway, I promise not to steal your boyfriend away. I don't actually WANT to marry a Jewish lawyer. It's just supposed to happen because I'm constantly surrounded by them (family and half of their friends).

I'm back from the east coast the night of the 21st. Will he still be around then?

[acousticus]

"The difference is that I'm no longer in love with that same person and I've experienced a lot of hate for that person."

That's exactly what I hope not to hear right now.

[pussycatpike]

I want the closure that you have. I am glad that you were on good enough terms to at least meet up.

This gives me hope.

[zoombinilover]

The thing is, we weren't on good terms. We ended very badly, with me saying I couldn't spend time with him anymore and him yelling at me. That was four months after the last time I'd seen him. The next time we talked was three months later, when he IM'd me to ask for someone's phone number ... that was a year ago. So we weren't on good terms, but enough time had passed that I was capable of deciding that seeing him would be fine. If it were now a year ago, it couldn't have happened because I was still hurting. It needed to happen when I was no longer in pain.

[blaze2242]

That sounds remarkably satisfying, congrats!