Being different is NOT okay.

Jun 25, 2009 11:09

For a future reference, don't EVER say you don't like Ziggy Marley...it'll get you dumped ( Read more... )

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zellywelly June 25 2009, 15:53:30 UTC
He was the best bf I ever had. Everything he did and said was perfect. I found a very rare breed of man and wanted to hang onto him but i never knew he had these issues until he told me and now its over.... I hate the dating game I dont go out anywhere anymore to have a chance to meet a new guy and if i did where will i go? a bar or club? YEAH i dont want that kind of guy i know how guys are here and they in one way or another suck, Brendon was so different.... I don't want this at all but I'm just so shocked that it happened the way it did.....

He in some ways is worth it and in some ways isn't. I keep telling myself today that this isn't bad and that it wasnt meant to be and that he wanted this to be over for a while so dont bother making him waste his time more.... i keep saying that i need a break from guys and i need to focus on me but its so hard to do that.... i want to change a lot but changing my bf was not the plan but i guess i have no choice now. I'll try to be positive.....

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zellywelly June 25 2009, 20:57:35 UTC
It wasnt my music but his haha he loved to talk crap about indie hipsters but he loved to listen to their music and i wasnt into it but i went when i could but i didnt go enough apparently....

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mandywheeler June 25 2009, 16:33:44 UTC
oh my God, baby ;__; <3 <3 <3
let it out if it wants out......... it'd be no good to pent up all your current feelings and let it spill over later on. get it out of your system now.

i can't believe someone would base a breakup off of all that. that's just ridiculous and not excusable in my book.

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zellywelly June 25 2009, 20:58:33 UTC
Yeah it's kind of lame and the worst part is that he waited to drop it all on me at once WAY after it was a problem to begin with....if he would have told me this sooner I feel like I could have done better to prevent this.

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greentmist June 25 2009, 17:19:41 UTC
I'm really sorry honey!
If you feel you need to say something than do so, don't live with any regrets!
Not going to a concert with your bf and having different interests has nothing to do with why he broke up with you. There's obviously some under lying issues that he needs to be honest with you about.

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zellywelly June 25 2009, 20:59:45 UTC
He LOVEs to spend a lot of time with his gf, she becomes his life is what he told me when we first met. I took on that challenge without always going where he invited me. it's a HUGE deal to him that i dont go to a lot of things he invites me to and i understand in a lot of ways but like you said....i almost feel like it's something else.

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idontblnghere June 25 2009, 17:49:52 UTC
you should come visit when you are done work. if you can or tomorrow. i'm packing all day until work so stop by and we can make tea and talk.

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zellywelly June 25 2009, 20:56:35 UTC
Where is Kyle? I dont want to cry in front of kyle haha. I'll come over today if you don't mind but it won't be until after 7 if you don't mind. Are you guys moving this wekeend????

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pete_cottontail June 26 2009, 04:19:13 UTC
*Hugs* Yeah, sometimes being different sucks. But being like everybody else, blows. I'm sorry that had to happened to you.

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