a formula for guilt

[yflyn]

When you have a new baby, everyone keeps asking you the same old questions over and over again: how heavy is he? is he sleeping through the night? breastmilk or formula? etc. I generally don’t mind answering these questions but the last one always gets to me - because when I reply that The Bun is on partial breastfeeding everyone goes ‘ah…’ and I

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[yflyn]

I guess guilt-tripping (and learning how to get over it) is an inevitable part of motherhood! But thanks for your comment, and yes, I'm working on eradicating mommy guilt!

[placeboweek]

I can't stand the breastfeeding vs. formula debate -- the reason breastfeeding is better is because in third world countries where food is scarce and the water supply is tainted, formula is a bad idea. People should be thankful there IS formula, or else what would babies eat if the mom couldn't breastfeed?

Also, I was 100% formula fed (back then, breastfeeding wasn't seen as superior) and I turned out fine. :)

[yflyn]

Well, breastmilk is full of nutrients and other compounds that formula milk cannot replicate. It is tailor-made to your baby, changes as the baby grows, and contains antibodies that help strengthen the immune system. So if a mother can (and does) breastfeed, it is a perfect food for babies.

I was 100% on formula too (I think many people our age were) and I like to think I turned out fine. ;)

[fuchsiacow]

Your best will always be enough. =) a happy mother will always be the best for Lucas.

Hey, I was 100% formula fed too and I turned out fine (at least I think so). Hahhaa.

[yflyn]

Yes, I'm starting to realise that being happy and positive is ultimately better for The Bun. It beats a tearful, frustrated, and slightly resentful mother anytime. :)

[valska]

Yes, you do what works best for you! No more mummy guilt. hugs.

[yflyn]

Fighting mommy guilt seems to be a constant battle! But thanks. :)