...i... am... reading your fic? it is 22 chapters long and i barely have energy for my own stuff, so i'm going really slow, but i am reading it and have every intention of finishing it. there's no need to be passive-aggressive about it. if it's that important for you to know if i'm reading it, you could just ask e_e otherwise i really don't like being told 'fuck you' on a public livejournal post or anywhere because you just assumed the worst of me and that i wouldn't give a shit. that is rude as hell. i'm sorry i'm not reading fast enough for you.
if you want to share stuff, share it. nobody is stopping you. but it is mean as hell for you to get bitter based on assumptions you made without just asking first. wtf.
Mostly, it's not about my fic. Nyquil does not leave for the best structurally sound post.
The issue is that I do want to share stuff. I try to but it gets shot down/pushed aside/ignored/or told "Not today". So when I do share publicly (public is like, two people) I'm told not to.
Sorry if I offended. It was late, I was tired, stressed, sick, and not feeling very well in general.
if nyquil makes you talk to me like that, don't post on nyquil. yes, saying "fuck you" IS offensive. i've done absolutely nothing to deserve that
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I have been reading it. I was talking to you about it too, so this kind of accusation is unwarranted and deeply unkind. I left off on chapter five and haven't picked it up since because I have been finishing my own stuff. I remember it more than once when took you a long time to read projects that meant a lot to the rest of us. I've sent people stuff that I completed and never heard a word back. It happens. People get busy
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Yes, I know you've been reading it and I'm thrilled that you have been. I'm not accusing you of not reading it. I know people get busy. It happens. I know it sounded that way, but honestly I did say I was hopped up on Nyquil and it wasn't the most coherent of posts I could have made.
It's not about my fic. It's about various other things.
If I'm not allowed to occasionally vent or rant on my own journal, then what is the point of a journal? I'm not the only one that's gone off on a public journal post. Yet when I do, it's always the end of the world and everyone gets offended that I might let two other people know that I might be feeling a little down.
Wasn't the idea to post daily LJ anyways to just talk about things?
I'm sorry you're hurt. The intention was not to slay. It was to express that I am sick, I'm tired, I'm stressed, and feeling a little down.
Venting and ranting is just fine, and I don't want to discourage you from that at all, but this is not the healthy way to do it. I have never said "fuck you" to my family and if I ever saw anyone else do it, they would be getting the same treatment. You're allowed to vent, but if it gets to the point where I see insults like that slung around, then that is not okay. That isn't what we're going for. There are ways to rant without hurting someone. If you're that upset, something should be said long before you reach the point of apathy and "fuck you", because that is seriously concerning.
If this is a side effect of being sick, I can understand. You're tired and stressed and worked to the bone enough as it is without being sick on top of it, but I really don't think this was fair. We all say dumb stuff when we're upset, and I don't hold that against anyone because they're obviously not in a good place. If that tainted your mindset, sure, but I don't think it's hard to understand why I'm hurt by this.
Honestly, it could have been said in better taste. It wasn't so much a "fuck you" insult but more of a "fuck it. Fine. I don't care" toss out that didn't come out right
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if you want to share stuff, share it. nobody is stopping you. but it is mean as hell for you to get bitter based on assumptions you made without just asking first. wtf.
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The issue is that I do want to share stuff. I try to but it gets shot down/pushed aside/ignored/or told "Not today". So when I do share publicly (public is like, two people) I'm told not to.
Sorry if I offended. It was late, I was tired, stressed, sick, and not feeling very well in general.
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It's not about my fic. It's about various other things.
If I'm not allowed to occasionally vent or rant on my own journal, then what is the point of a journal? I'm not the only one that's gone off on a public journal post. Yet when I do, it's always the end of the world and everyone gets offended that I might let two other people know that I might be feeling a little down.
Wasn't the idea to post daily LJ anyways to just talk about things?
I'm sorry you're hurt. The intention was not to slay. It was to express that I am sick, I'm tired, I'm stressed, and feeling a little down.
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If this is a side effect of being sick, I can understand. You're tired and stressed and worked to the bone enough as it is without being sick on top of it, but I really don't think this was fair. We all say dumb stuff when we're upset, and I don't hold that against anyone because they're obviously not in a good place. If that tainted your mindset, sure, but I don't think it's hard to understand why I'm hurt by this.
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