i am so proud of zach for making this totally adult, totally mature decision to give up his friends and the people who love him, to take care of himself. thats a huge sacrifice and i dont know if i would be able to be that brave.
that said, i would feel ultimately different if i lived in downey and zach was leaving me. i dont doubt the depth and significance of the relationship between you guys for a second. i can tell how much you both love each other. it sucks immensly not being able to be with him, and can only imagine what it would feel like to be so close to him for so long and to then have him taken away. id be upset with him too for making the decision.
change is the only constant in life. it just happens. for better or for worse, sometimes we can control it, sometimes we cant. we have no choice but to deal with it and move on because it will happen whether we accept it or not.
Zach is so strong though,and he knows that no matter what.His friends will there for him.I've known him since he was in 7th grade.Ever since then,we have became best friends.Zach is the only person I can still call up,and tell anything too.I can be crying,and he listens,and no matter what he will make me feel better.It is really hard knowing I cant just catch the metro to his house now,and I know summer isnt as close as I keep telling myself.but it has to come no matter what. Anywho,I just wanted to comment back to your comment to Annie because.I just felt like saying something back.I can totally deal and accept his choice,but it still breaks my heart.Im sorry I was totally random.
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that said, i would feel ultimately different if i lived in downey and zach was leaving me. i dont doubt the depth and significance of the relationship between you guys for a second. i can tell how much you both love each other. it sucks immensly not being able to be with him, and can only imagine what it would feel like to be so close to him for so long and to then have him taken away. id be upset with him too for making the decision.
change is the only constant in life. it just happens. for better or for worse, sometimes we can control it, sometimes we cant. we have no choice but to deal with it and move on because it will happen whether we accept it or not.
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