I saw your post in lj secret, and I just want to say that I hope you don't go, because I think you have a LOT of courage in posting your post. I would not be able to do the same, even anonymously. In fact, I haven't posted any secrets because I'm too paranoid and have rationalized that I don't have the time (even though I spend enough time reading the posts).
I am sorry about what happened to you, and I wish you could have gotten away... I also hope you do something for the kids... I wish somebody had for me. Please do something. I know it seems impossibly hard, but I know how furious I would be if I knew somebody had known what could happen to me.
Sorry to put this in your journal, but the drama over there was too much.
hi, thank you for your kind words. I decided to definitely leave. I haven't been active on my LJ for al ong time, and when i finally started again, all of that happened. I am definitely turned away from LJ now. I use greatestjournal, and i love it so much more.
if you post your secrets at onlysecrets on greatestjournal, there will be no harsh words said about it. That's completely not allowed there. Posting my secret there helped me so much. It gave me the courage to tel my mom and finally say something to the girl who did it to me. It's so much better than ljsecret.
about the girl who did it to me... It just so happens that she started to go to therapy, and she is seeing the same one as me! I am going to take advantage of this. Maybe things will finally get straightened out. i know she will never tell her therapist about it, but something might get done now.
Don't worry about posting it here, that's not a problem at all. Thank you for being thoughtful enough to even say something in the first place. =]
Wow. That is so weird. Do you think your therapist will try to help her, based on the information given? I hope so. Now that she has a child (and I think you mentioned a second child also), it is especially important. I wish she had received help before meeting you, but if the cycle is broken then that would be fantastic.
I'm not sure what's gonna happen with this therapist thing. I just saw her yesterday, and i gave her a big gist of what happened to me, for the first time. I didn't tell her it was someone she is actually seeing, hah. I don't know when i'm going to tell her. But i think she'll do something, for sure. She is so amazing. I love her. :) I've had so many different therapists, and she's by far the best i've had! I dont know, maybe she figured out its the same girl. I'm sure there isnt THAT much people in my area that had their first baby at 19 and is pregnant with her second now. And depending on what Megan told her, when I told her that i help up her left leg during the birth, it might have been VERY obvious. She can't tell me that she knows though.
When these things happened to me, she was 12-16ish. So she wouldn't have gotten help BEFORE i met her... but I'm glad she is getting help now. And i feel good about it because i know who she is seeing, and i know she's amazing. =]
oh my goodness!! Thanks for pointing that out to me. =]
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I am sorry about what happened to you, and I wish you could have gotten away... I also hope you do something for the kids... I wish somebody had for me. Please do something. I know it seems impossibly hard, but I know how furious I would be if I knew somebody had known what could happen to me.
Sorry to put this in your journal, but the drama over there was too much.
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I decided to definitely leave. I haven't been active on my LJ for al ong time, and when i finally started again, all of that happened. I am definitely turned away from LJ now. I use greatestjournal, and i love it so much more.
if you post your secrets at onlysecrets on greatestjournal, there will be no harsh words said about it. That's completely not allowed there. Posting my secret there helped me so much. It gave me the courage to tel my mom and finally say something to the girl who did it to me. It's so much better than ljsecret.
about the girl who did it to me... It just so happens that she started to go to therapy, and she is seeing the same one as me! I am going to take advantage of this. Maybe things will finally get straightened out. i know she will never tell her therapist about it, but something might get done now.
Don't worry about posting it here, that's not a problem at all. Thank you for being thoughtful enough to even say something in the first place. =]
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Wow. That is so weird. Do you think your therapist will try to help her, based on the information given? I hope so. Now that she has a child (and I think you mentioned a second child also), it is especially important. I wish she had received help before meeting you, but if the cycle is broken then that would be fantastic.
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Hey, I just remembered that you were in a secret on ljsecret recently!: http://community.livejournal.com/ljsecret/170891.html (#30)
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When these things happened to me, she was 12-16ish. So she wouldn't have gotten help BEFORE i met her... but I'm glad she is getting help now. And i feel good about it because i know who she is seeing, and i know she's amazing. =]
oh my goodness!! Thanks for pointing that out to me. =]
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