i dont know the specifics but heres my spin on things.
people are made to either care about themselves or completely extend thier trust and let thier significant other care for them.. but if you extend that trust and that person cannot manage to let go of the habit of caring about themself you have 2 people caring about one person and that is not a heatlthy relationship, so basically the question is do you feel safe letting your guard down and are you confident that they will do what it takes to make you happy the way you would for them. if either answer is no just pull out now because you will be caring for someone but keeping your guard up because deep down inside you know at some point they will fail to return it. or even worse you DO let your guard down and they fail and it breaks your heart.. so can you trust this person?
idk if it makes any sense to you, but thats how i see stuff like that
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people are made to either care about themselves or completely extend thier trust and let thier significant other care for them.. but if you extend that trust and that person cannot manage to let go of the habit of caring about themself you have 2 people caring about one person and that is not a heatlthy relationship, so basically the question is do you feel safe letting your guard down and are you confident that they will do what it takes to make you happy the way you would for them. if either answer is no just pull out now because you will be caring for someone but keeping your guard up because deep down inside you know at some point they will fail to return it. or even worse you DO let your guard down and they fail and it breaks your heart.. so can you trust this person?
idk if it makes any sense to you, but thats how i see stuff like that
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