jenn you are so darling!!! lol...i trully admire how much u stand by how u feel despite all the pressures from the world...also, i do agree that a healthy relationship exhists without sex.
shut up Katy you know your night-time job is selling out on the corners. JUST KIDDING YOU ARE SOO MUCH BETTER THAN THAT!
Jenn, cute icon pic! You look adorable as always.
I loved the post, it reminded me of that really funny speaker we had that one day. I love how your morals haven't been altered and how you stand up for what you believe in no matter how many ppl want to strike out at it.
haha I don't think that's going to happen... but hey if you're a 30 year old virgin, just think of all the scumy guys you didn't involved with!! and just think of the most wonderful guy that you will meet that loves you for who you are and not the kind of experience you've had in bed
worrrrd. im glad to know we see eye to eye on this. haha its so crazy to some of the pple ive asked them bout this...they have said they started doing sexual stuff when they were so young...like some say around the age of 13....13!!thats so insane. but i think once you get of highschool you start to mature and look for serious relationships. plus i look at it, if the guy doesnt respect you or would wanna go further, then they can just find any other girl, bc theres so many pple that would do that or give in, but not alot of pple that will stand firm in their standards. but if we stand firm, i know it will be amazing, and when i do meet the right person it will, bc i have so much to share with them, so they are getting all of me, and nothing that anyone else has had. but yeh anywho love ya girl and hope you have a good weekend<3!
Jen I just have to say, that I actually really liked this post. It's really odd that you posted it too because I was actually just thinking about this earlier today and honestly, I wish I would have waited. :(
i love you jenn. and this post. i agree almost completely with this post, accept in the situaton of where you really and truely are in love with your significant other..then it isn't a horrible thing...you believe you are going to marry them someday, and it is a beautiful expression of your love for each other. and yes i really wish i had waited too. not neccessarily till marriage, but longer than i did wait. but teenagers are young and stupid and make mistakes. anywhoo..i love love love you and your beliefs! and it's nice to know there are still good, sweet, genuine, innocent girls out there who believe in those things. xo!
I wish I had waited too... sex really does complicate things in a relationship. And when you don't have sex, it so much easier for you to walk away from a relationship you know you shouldn't be in-cause you don't have that intimate connection, and you can see clearly how they respect you. Yea, sex is great for that second, but afterwards it changes how you see the other person, how they see you, and the kind of direction the relationship is heading in-and how they respect you. I think it would have been way better for me to have waited cause I constantly worry... like he can get this from another girl, why does he come to me... is that the only reason he is coming to me... but those are only split moments, but the fact they come up is kinda upsetting. I'm proud of you for standing up with what you believe, and trut me I'm right there with you on the sex idea, and I think it takes courage and strength to not give in to what everyone else is doing. love you Jenn
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yea that makes total sense, I can see it from that point of view too, that if you have sex now, it's like you're cheating on him knowing that later on in life you will love him... and giving into sex with soeone else right now is taking out of what you want to give him, your gift. I think what you believe is awesome, it is incredible to meet someone who really does not want to take away from that gift. I commend you for it and standing by it. I wish I certain things hadn't happen to me to where I could be where you are... what I have done is not necessarily what I believe. sex to me in precious and shouldn't be taken so lightly or pushed to as something that needs to be done. I hope you do find that one guy that will be your husband, and you'll know cause he'll beleive in what you stand for.
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Jenn,
cute icon pic! You look adorable as always.
I loved the post, it reminded me of that really funny speaker we had that one day. I love how your morals haven't been altered and how you stand up for what you believe in no matter how many ppl want to strike out at it.
love you!!!
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